Start with what
you have noticed.
Choose a calm moment. Describe what you have noticed and listen. If it feels unsafe, step away and seek support.
Choose whose support you are looking for.
You don’t have to tell everyone.
Start with one safe person.
Free, confidential gambling advice and guidance on treatment for you or someone you care about.
Open support websiteAsk a gambling specialist or your doctor about treatment, including CBT, and support for sleep, depression, relationships or substance use. Peer support can help with connection alongside care.
Find support for yourself, alongside ways to help them.
Choose a calm moment. Describe what you have noticed and listen. If it feels unsafe, step away and seek support.
Sit with them while they contact support or set up blocks. Don’t fund gambling or secretly cover losses. Protect shared bills and your accounts.
You can get support before they accept help. Ask about your wellbeing, finances and children. Their recovery is not yours to manage alone.
“I care about you, and I’m worried about the effect gambling is having. I can help you contact support. I cannot fund gambling or take responsibility for keeping it hidden.”
If there is intimidation, financial abuse or violence, prioritise safety and independent specialist help. In immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
If you might act on thoughts of suicide or self-harm, or cannot keep yourself safe, call your local emergency number or go to the nearest emergency department. In Denmark and the EU, call 112. Move away from anything you could use to hurt yourself and ask a safe person to stay with you.
You do not have to wait until you are certain it is an emergency to ask for help. This website and the activity are not a crisis service.
Livslinien offers anonymous suicide-prevention support. It is not an emergency service; check availability on its website. Outside Denmark, use your local emergency or crisis service.